Impressing the World, Forgetting the One Who Made Us
As the days go by, many in our generation place their value in people rather than in the Creator who made them. We strive to impress those who won’t even remember our names by the end of the day, forgetting that the One who formed us knew us long before we entered this world (Jeremiah 1:5, Psalm 139:13-16, Isaiah 44:2).
Through Instagram posts, TikTok videos, or our lifestyle, we seek praise and acceptance. If the world is impressed by our outer appearance, financial status, relationships, or achievements, we feel accepted. But if we don’t meet its ever-changing standards, we are treated as if we are nothing.
You’ve seen it. Maybe you’ve even posted, liked, commented, saved, or shared content like this. Am I right?
God Looks at the Heart
Here’s the truth: God doesn’t measure your value by what you have on the outside.
Your bank account, house, job, car, relationship status, hairstyle, education, or physique; none of these define you in His eyes. Yes, God blesses people with good things, but His blessings are expressions of His mercy, grace, love, and favor. The world sees the outside, but God sees the heart.
The Example of David
If you grew up in church, you’ve probably heard about King David. If not, here’s a quick picture: David was overlooked. Before becoming king, he was just a young shepherd boy. Even his own father didn’t consider him at first when the prophet Samuel came to anoint the next king of Israel.
When Samuel saw David’s older brother, Eliab, he assumed he was the chosen one because of his physical appearance. But God corrected Samuel: “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
(1 Samuel 16:7).
David wasn’t chosen because of his status or looks. He was chosen because he was a man after God’s own heart.
The Trap of Seeking Approval
Maybe you’ve been feeling depressed, unloved, or invisible because others don’t value you the way you wish they would. Perhaps you’ve tried to change your appearance or your social media just to get likes and attention.
But let me ask you this: Is it really worth it? Is it worth pouring out so much effort just to feel seen for a moment? Does it truly satisfy the deep need to be loved, valued, and accepted?
Your True Worth
You probably know the famous verse John 3:16. We hear it so often that it's many people's IG bio verse. But think about what it truly means. Jesus took the whips, insults, punches, spit, and nails for you. Even if you were the only person on earth, He still would have died for you. That’s Jesus saying, “You are of priceless value to Me, My child.”
When you feel unloved or overlooked, picture Jesus whispering that truth to you.
Because it’s real. That’s how deeply you matter to Him.
The Harsh Reality of Our World
We live in a time where love is rare. Many people pretend to care, but their actions don’t match their words. Sadly, this won’t change anytime soon. Scripture even warns us about this reality in 2 Timothy 3:1-6. But here’s the good news. While the world’s love may fail, God’s love never will.
You Are Not Forgotten
My friend, wherever you are and whoever you are, know this: you are not forgotten. The world may reject you, ignore you, mock you, or even forget you completely.
But God? Reflect on this: "Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you.” (Isaiah 49:15).
When Jesus died for you, He left a permanent mark. The scars on His hands and feet.
Love always leaves a mark.
Reflection
If you’ve been feeling unseen, unloved, or forgotten, take a moment to pause and breathe. The truth is, you are deeply loved, fully known, and never forgotten by God, even if the world has made you believe otherwise.
Here’s a simple prayer you can whisper, no matter where you are in your faith journey:
“Lord, help me to see myself the way You see me.
Heal the parts of me that feel overlooked or unloved, and remind me that my value comes from You alone.
Thank You for never forgetting me. Amen.”
If you want to take it a step further, grab a notebook or even the notes app on your phone and reflect on this:
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Write down the lies the world has told you about your worth.
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Then, write what God’s Word says about you instead.
(Start with Jeremiah 1:5, Psalm 139:13-16, and John 3:16.)
Whenever you feel invisible, remember this truth. The God who created the universe knows your name, your heart, and your story. Walk boldly in the love that never fails because even if the world overlooks you, God never will.
